News Of My Home

     My life is so different today.

What happened to Ms.H was cruel. 

So, things were going pretty good between Dees brother and Ms.H but I guess old habits die hard. He would claim loving Christ, but his actions told otherwise. (U will know them by their fruit).

He started with the verbal abuse, screaming at her, "Shut the fuck up" and "Go to your fucking room."

Over time this wears on a persons nerves. Even if he's soft spoken at other times. 

She stayed in the room most of the time.

One day she heard screaming and ran out to find he was smoking while on his oxygen machine, which he did often but that day his face was on fire and the fire was going up the tube. She immediately unplugged it and threw it out the door. If she had not been there, him and his dog would have most likely died.

Things went well for a couple more weeks and he was back into the yelling of profanities. She was making a plan to leave, and he got really mad at her and wanted her to leave right then. She refused. She was making a plan to leave the following Monday. I think that was 4 days away.

So, he calls the youngest sister screaming he needs to go to the hospital, but he wanted Ms.H to leave, little sister called Dee as she was knocking on my door to talk to Dee. Dee didn't answer and little sister told him to call an ambulance. And he was saying Ms.H won't pack his bag. Which made her yell at me to make Ms.H get out 'right now'. I said she was leaving on Monday and went to my room. 

Dee called brother back and said she would be there in the morning. 

I was talking to Ms.H on the phone, and she told me that she did pack his bag and was on the phone with her work supervisor who had heard all the cussing and yelling, and she told Ms.H to call an ambulance and Ms.H told her that he won't let her. So, boss lady says OK she would call for an ambulance and she did. When the ambulance got there, he refused to go. He became so belligerent the ambulance people called the police. Police said he doesn't have to go and defused the situation a bit.

And Dee did go in the morning and started screaming at Ms.H to get out... and Dee was talking to brother insulting me and Ms.H. Ms.H was on the phone with her daughter who heard all the hollering and called the police for a wellness check on her mother. 

Cops showed up and Dee and brother lied to them. Said Ms.H was trying to suffocate him... Huge lie... If she was trying to suffocate him, he would be dead. And I can say for sure... I've known Dee for 50 years and Ms.H for 30 years and I happen to know that Dee has lied for years and years to lots of people, but Ms.H has never been known as a liar.

The police were hearing both sides. Knowing that Ms.H had just saved his life when the fire people got there, there was a report on file.

Then Dee and brother were pressing criminal trespassing charges if she wasn't out in an hour. She called her brother who had to leave work to come help his sister move to her other brother's house. She has several brothers, lucky her! And she called me as she was waiting for him. And told me what was going on. I was extremely angry. I mean Dee had LIED to the police! Is that any way to thank the person who saved you and your dogs life? Ms.H told me what was going on. And said she and her daughter were going to pray for me, as I too was being verbally abused.

I was very angry when Dee came home but she didn't know why I was angry. She was all happy that she had gotten Ms.H out of her brothers RV. And she didn't tell me what happened either, she was just in a really good mood. And took her pills and went to bed early.

And I soon had many people praying for me!

The next morning, I waited until Mr.B left and told her we needed to talk. She was staggering so I knew she had already taken her pills and probably wouldn't do any good to talk about it now, but I went on with my plan. To ask her 3 questions, 1. "When have I ever proclaimed myself as so perfect that my shit doesn't stink?" She said what are you talking about? I said, "you know what you told your brother yesterday." she started saying that's what I think... and I'm like, "No, I am always cutting myself down." You see she knows this is what I do, I have been insulted so much that I just have learned to beat em' to the punch. If ya can't beat em' join em'... has been my way of thinking. And it pretty much stopped them from insulting me if I insulted myself first. 

Question number 2. "How would YOU feel if I was constantly screaming and cussing at you?" And she said, "I don't do that to you." ... "Right, but your brother did it to Ms.H." She started getting up saying that I was 'never a friend' and shutting her door in my face and I asked her the 3rd question yelling at the door. 3. "And why would you LIE to the police and threatening criminal trespassing charges on the person that saved him and his dog?" And here she came out the door screaming it was all my fault because I got her to move in. Oh, I guess they were looking for someone who would tolerate the abuse. 

She was screaming at me, cussing and talking so horrible, she started to push me, and I backed into my room and locked the door. She went crazy. She emptied all our food out of 'her freezer' and threw hundreds of dollars' worth of food in the kitchen. I heard her going nuts. But I didn't go out. 

She also destroyed a plant that I had from my sister's funeral. 

The next day she said she was going to move before we ended up hating each other. I was glad about it. Because she was mean to me a lot. I was her slave 24/7. I was worried about how I would pay my bills because I was being paid by the state to care for her. 

It took 2 days for her to get completely moved out. Everyone is so happy for me. And I am actually enjoying my peace and quiet. And no cigarette smoke choking me all day. 

I am actually very happy about it! Praise GOD Thank U Jesus! 

I already have another job offer! And Ms.H is living in a mansion these days! Her brothers are so happy she got out of that RV, away from being verbally abused and bullied... 

She will have no problem finding a job, she already has had 3 or 4 offers!

As for me, I am playing my old records and singing and dancing around the house again now that I am 'home alone'!

My daughter came over yesterday and helped me clean up a bit. The smell is almost gone. 

I am already feeling less stress. 

I will be so glad to go to work and then be able to come home to a quiet clean house!

I realize that had Ms.H not been there to suffer for me, I would still be suffering to this day.

Thank You GOD for this unforeseen plan.

Praise GOD Thank U Jesus!

GOD Bless US Everyone IJCNA